1)Does your partner put you down?
2)Does your partner humiliate you?.
3)Does your partner call you names?
4)Do you ever feel guilty when around your partner?
5)Does your partner cast blame on you?
6)Do you have a job?
7)If not, is it because your partner thought it was better that way?
8)Does your partner ever force you to do anything?
9)Does your partner give you an allowence?
10)Do you have to ask your partner for money?
11)Does yoru partner ever scare you by hitting objects such as the wall or the table?
12)Does your partner ever take your money away?
13)Does your partner ever scare you by using facial expressions?
14)if you have children:
a) does he ever make you feel guilty about them?
b) does he ever threaten you that he will take them away if you leave him?
15)Does your partner control who you will see, where you will go, and what to wear?
16)Have you stopped seing your friends and family on a regular basis?
- If you answered yes to most of these question, you are most likely in an abusive relationship,
allthough you might not be getting physically harmed. Please contact a hot-line or your local CLSC for further assistance.
